100 Thing Challenge~Charmed Edition

by DeeAnne on 02/06/2010

When I first read about the 100 Thing Challenge, on whittling ones possessions down to a nice round 100, I was intrigued. I’m a lover of organization, and an avid spring cleaner, but I had never imagined going all the way down to only 100 items. I loved the idea. Less is simple, less is easy, less is elegant.

With that one word, it fit right into my theme of lifestyle design. One of the common misconceptions about my site was that I meant ‘luxury’ when using the word ‘elegant’. I did not. I do enjoy many of the finer things, and many more of the simpler things, but it was intended to mean an elegant solution to my dilemma; simple and precise and lucid. It meant getting to the heart of what mattered, after my life had gone careening into American excess.

I was on the path to simplifying my life, both at home and at work. I had fallen in love with the French way of life, and I wanted that. I adored the way work was kept in its place, and I admired the way they were able to enjoy the nice things they had, without always wanting more. They seemed to understand what to spend money on, and what not to. They were elegant. I wanted to enjoy lovely things, but I didn’t want to be enslaved by them. That’s what I found in the 100 Thing Challenge. It wasn’t about denying myself material pleasures, it was about not being owned by material pleasures.

As one Time magazine article based on this grassroots movement pointed out, “stuff” becomes oppressive at some point rather than bringing the happiness that I thought owning it would bring. The less I have to look after, the less maintenance there is too. This frees up time for travel, golf and cooking for friends. It also allows me to work at something I truly enjoy versus having to find a job that makes enough money to buy all that I want to own. It fit perfectly into lifestyle designing, too. Many lifestyle designers I’ve spoken to have given me the advice of getting rid of unnecessary things. They often trim down their possessions to be able to travel lightly, and to be able to store their things easily while they’re away.

It was perfect timing, as well. I had recently sold my home in California furnished, and had just completed a sabbatical, so I didn’t have much “stuff”. A move to England from America dramatically helped me trim my possessions down even further. Having a clean slate to start with will help me to take a much harder look at what I purchase in the future, and ask myself if I really want it badly enough for it to be one of only 100 things I own. A true test of what brings me joy, and what might have been purchased mindlessly before. Perhaps the perfect way to begin to learn the French citizen’s relationship with their possessions.

My only reservation is that I want to trim down to things that I love, versus only true necessities. Will I really use one of my precious slots for a that tablecloth I bought in Provence? I’ve decided that the only one making up the rules for my 100 Thing Challenge is me, and there’s no one to tell me that I’m wrong for keeping an extravagance. My 100 things will be a combination of luxe and frugal, necessities and things that bring me joy. I’ll spend money on classic items that will last, and that can be passed down to my family, but unimportant things will be price shopped mercilessly.

A few of the pieces that will be on my list, and that I’ll spend money on in the future~

1. Heirloom linens

2. Spieglau wine glasses

3. Le Creuset cookware

4. Pearls

5. Shoes

6. Mattresses (because as my grandmother said, “Always buy good shoes and good mattresses, because if your feet or back hurt you’ll be miserable.”)

7. Loro Piana turtlenecks

8. True Religion blue jeans

9. One bottle of perfume that I adore

10. A MacBook Pro

So, you may be asking yourself how a Jimmy Choo loving girl is attracted to such a minimalist idea. It’s simple really. Minimalism is freeing, and it gives me room. Room to grow, room to enjoy and room to live.

I look forward to your comments, and to learning what things you will and won’t keep on your 100 Thing Challenge list!

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Man, where does all the stuff come from?
07/06/2010 at 05:37

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Rasheed Hooda 03/06/2010 at 11:26

I love it.

Minimalism doesn’t have to mean cheap. I love elegance. You can be frugal and elegant at the same time.

Thanks for sharing this with us.

Rasheed

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DeeAnne 03/06/2010 at 11:38

I couldn’t agree more Rasheed! Simplicity, frugality and elegance are a perfect combination!

Best,
D

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Gee Backhouse 05/06/2010 at 03:19

Fantastic article! I moved from the UK to France with oodles of “stuff” and am committed to trimming it down … even thinking about this makes the mext move seem more achievable! A liberating thought.

Gee

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DeeAnne 05/06/2010 at 05:44

Hello Gee!

I’m so happy you enjoyed the post! It was one of my favourites to write.

I couldn’t agree more that the process of scaling down is very liberating. It’s also wonderful to look around, or look in my closet, and see only items I love or have sentimental attachment too!

Very best to you on your life in France!
D

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Tara Bradford 05/06/2010 at 06:11

It really is true that possessions can weigh one down. In 11 years in Europe, I’ve amassed quite a few antiques and collectibles. Too many, really, which is why I’m selling lots and paring down, in prep for the next move to Amsterdam. But I could never pare down to 100 things – I have too many books that I won’t give up!

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DeeAnne 05/06/2010 at 06:59

Hello Tara!

Thank you for the comment, and I so agree about possessions weighing us down!

I’m with you on the books too! One of the tricks many people use is to count books as one item (or shoes or linens or any or precious collection they have). I read that many people also begin with trimming to 200 items to ease in. The rules are up to you!

I also love how many comments I’ve gotten from people saying they’d keep antiques and items they’ve collected on trips around the world. I’m just imagining all of these homes with only lovely, important things around.

My best wishes on your exciting move!
D

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Erika 05/06/2010 at 16:12

Oooh, I adore this post! I just serendipitiously (is that a word?) found you via Twitter and just love these ideas. So true. I am in the midst of packing up my life to cross the pond (from Chicago to England!) and have spent many many weeks pairing down. I absolutely agree with you that it’s important to keep what is really delicious to you. If you love it, that’s all that matters. Looking forward to reading more. Thank you for sharing.

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DeeAnne 06/06/2010 at 08:38

Hello Erika!

Serendipitously is absolutely a word, and you’ll find many of my posts (both on my site and for others) are on serendipity! A favourite topic of mine. It’s also very serendipitous that I’ve lived in Chicago, and just moved to England. You’re going to adore it!

Thank you so much for your kind comments, and I’m so glad you enjoyed reading the post as much as I enjoyed writing it. It’s both liberating and lovely to look around and not see things that have no soul, but only things that as you said are simply delicious!

Thanks again, best wishes on your move to the UK!

Best,
D

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DailyDivaDish 09/06/2010 at 15:48

What a beautiful and timely (for me) post. I’ve recently been giving a lot of thought to the energy it takes to have so many things. I’m trying to make changes in this area of my life. Learning to save the memories but let go of the items. And it’s not always an easy thing to do… but I’ll get there. Thanks for such a lovely post.
XO Piper

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DeeAnne 09/06/2010 at 16:42

My dearest Piper,

You have no idea how special your comment was! Not only was it so nice to hear that my post struck a chord with you, but I’d literally just gotten off the phone with my lovely daughter in law (I have two grown sons), and she had just broken the news that she was expecting a baby girl. To be named Piper. Absolutely perfect!

All my best, and xoxoxo!

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van 29/06/2010 at 05:48

“I wanted to enjoy lovely things, but I didn’t want to be enslaved by them.”

This is exactly what I wanted to do after I took a big leap of faith and let go of a high-paying job to be a full-time home maker. It was also then I decided to prove to myself (and others too) that I can detach myself from material obsessions. It is hard since I’ve gotten used to getting what I want, but then I always keep in mind that happiness is not all about getting what you want, but also more on wanting (or being happy) with what you got. However, it does not stop me from appreciating beautiful (expensive or not) things too.

I love reading your blog. It is something I’d recommend to my friends!

Thank you again.

Sincerely,
Vanessa
My Lavender Fields

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DeeAnne 07/07/2010 at 13:43

Thank you so much for your comments! You’ve made my day Vanessa!

xo,
D

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